The first one is that my best friend of 15 years and my boyfriend of 5 years are having an affair…I have had suspicions since 2006…and have been on/off with him because of the suspicions, the dream was SO clear - can you help me with any validations, this is VERY painful to accept?

Answer:

The first thing that I am picking up for you is that you have been hurt quite badly in the past and that your fears are creating your immediate environment. Perhaps your suspicions are based on the lack of trust within your relationship, and that lack is driven by your hurt in the past which is creating a blockage within your heart chakra. I do not feel that your boyfriend is cheating and the relationship that he has with your best friend is just on friendly terms. I also feel that you are a very jealous individual and perhaps stifle the relationship somewhat. The first step you need to take is to forgive yourself for any hurt in the past and then take small baby steps in learning to trust again. You will soon begin to find that your relationship will become less stressful. I also see a change in job circumstances for you and that you will be moving house soon. This move will give you the security that you need and make you feel better inside and out. I also feel that due to the arguments that you have been having – you are not inclined to do the things that you enjoyed together in the past. Whilst you make your small steps towards trust, you should take time to perhaps enjoy the things that you have in common once more.

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